....And It's Not What You Think Most people think they're stuck in transition because they can't make a decision. They come to me saying: "Should I leave this job?" "Should I end this relationship?" "Should I start over completely?" But here's what I've learned after...
Not having it all figured out is not a failure of clarity. It is often a sign that a deeper transition is still unfolding. This piece explores why uncertainty is a natural part of change and what it means to stay present while things reorganize.
Michael made the right move on paper—a senior role, better compensation, a solid company. Months later, he still felt unsettled. This essay explores the difference between external change and internal transition, and why feeling “off” doesn’t mean something is wrong.